In case I hadn’t made it clear by now, my boyfriend is in the military and, while we knew we were going to be running around the state, we knew we also planned on staying on base. Honestly, this is something you have to plan – you can’t just walk onto a military base whenever you want; there are very specific protocols.
This isn’t the first time I have stayed on a military base. My uncle was in the military and we stayed with his family when we visited them in Japan; I was a pre-teen then, however, so I don’t remember all the procedures because mom and dad took care of all that planning.
So that we could both stay on base – as well as save some money – Ryan made reservations at the on-base hotel, making sure that both of our names were listed as part of the reservation – I don’t know how many times Ryan called the hotel to check this and plenty of other details the days leading up to our stay, both when we were stopped and while driving.
Now, you can choose to do some of the security clearances before you get there if the person you are visiting had all your details, however, you need to be present to get a pass onto the base; they need to copy your identification and take a current picture as well as have you fill out multiple forms to double check your identification to grant you proper clearance. Because of this, we felt it was easiest to get in early enough to drop into the welcome center and get it all finished right away without more coordinating. He, of course, learned all this by going and talking to the people at the welcome center a few weeks before I flew out.
Unfortunately, the one thing we forgot to check was the Sunday hours for the welcome center – it closes early on Sundays. Because of this, we had to get a temporary pass – available because of the reservation – and then got up early on Monday morning to get my longer term pass. This definitely involved me with my greasy hair up in a high bun, sleep shirt, big jeans, and glasses, sleepily filling out my packet of paperwork while practically falling asleep on the hard bench seat, but it all worked out. In the end, getting the pass worked out mostly due to the fact that we were staying on base, not just visiting each day.
Then there are some obvious things you have to get used to. You have to know when you are allowed or not allowed to take pictures – again these are pretty obvious and many areas have signs posted. It’s also remembering to keep your pass with you – we kept mine in Ryan’s car since I wan’t going out around base without him and we didn’t want to accidentally leave it in the room. The last big thing was behavioral – Ryan and I have always been affectionate but, in uniform, there are rules about behavior. This wasn’t much of a problem because he was only in uniform on his one work day.
Again, base life is much different than just visiting a friend anywhere else and there are a lot of things to remember because you really don’t want to get in trouble here – seriously, don’t speed on base. Still, with all the waiting at check points and the disadvantages of being in the middle of nowhere, this was an amazing place to stay and the staff at the hotel was amazing.
I am probably not staying at Fort Riley again – Ryan isn’t going to be living there much longer – but if other bases are anything like this, I definitely won’t mind staying on another one again. But for now:
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